6 WAYS TO IMPROVE ONESELF by; HARUNA SHUKURAT ADERONKE

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6 WAYS TO IMPROVE ONESELF 




By; HARUNA SHUKURAT ADERONKE

Change can only occur when we rise up and work towards development. No dream is impossible when we have the courage and believe.


Why do we often refuse to make choices that would help us be our best? Why do we refuse to be good to ourselves and hoping that things will change?

Change can only occur when we rise up and work towards development. No dream is impossible when we have the courage and believe.

What’s that one simple act that can work to your advantage and help you become better?

Below are six ways you can improve your life.

1. FACE YOUR FEARS

Everyone is scared of something, running away from our fears makes us weak and unproductive. You have to face your fears and overcome them, they are a challenge you'll have to overcome.

2. FORGIVE YOURSELF

Admit your mistakes to yourself. Learn from your past and use the lessons for future events. Focus on the now and stop reflecting on the moments that doesn't exist anymore. Forgive yourself and build a new life without regrets.

You also need to stop making excuses for the present because of the past, it will drain and slow down your growth.

3. CHANGE YOUR THINKING, ATTITUDE AND PERFORMANCE

Change begins with the mind. Belief is the knowledge that we can do something, If we believe we can or we believe we cannot, we are correct. Whatever we think is most likely what we become.

Your expectations are going to determine your attitude which determines your output. The reason that we have to make personal changes is so we can improve in our lives and affect people positively. When our attitude changes, our overall relationship with people change.

4. REDEFINE YOUR GOALS

Go back to the drawing board and begin to put new structures. There should be changes in your goals as you have to work towards it.

A goal without action is just a wish, set realistic goal and create plans for them. Don't wish without working.


5. FIND YOUR PLACE

Don't try fit in just anywhere, look inward and see what best relates. Your place is where you find peace and strength without having to break bones.

You should try out new things but also know where you fit in the most.

6. READ BOOKS AND TRAVEL

Read books and get to learn about things, books open our eyes to things we can't see from a distance. Through books, we get to understand and build our lives into something great.

Traveling helps open the mind show us the other path of the world. When you travel, you get to experience and refresh your mind towards change.


Note: Change is a gradual process and the results are amazing. When you decide to improve your life, you will need to deal with the challenges that comes with changing the things you belief in and adopting a new lifestyle towards success.

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